CANCER
so we've know that my dad has cancer for awhile but I think it is all just catching up to me.
A couple of years ago my dad was diagnosed with Renal Cancer and they had to take out one of his kidneys, no big deal right 'cause the kidney is gone so the cancer left with it.
WRONG
So then we found out that the renal cell cancer spread to lungs..and of course not just a little spot that can be removed, its everywhere. Long story short he did try some treatments and they did work for awhile. But now they aren't and the doctors said that there is really nothing left to do but wait. He has already beaten the odds. The normal life expectantcy is 6-8 months for this type of renal cell cancer and he's already had it for over 2 years.
He was in the hospital over the long weekend and came home on oxygen, I guess that's when it finally hit me. I work in a hospital and see death and dying alot but its different when its your dad. I makes me soooo mad, I'm one of those people who want to fix everything and everyone and this time I can't.
I have a really great support system in my husband, family, friends, and co-workers. But I still sucks! I wanted him to see me finish college, see Veronica get to high school, and at least see Gabby start Kindergarden, but now I don't know.
Please pray for my dad and our family........thanks
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rosie
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I love my girls just about sums it up. We have 2 girls, our oldest is 7 and the baby is 17 months old. I'm 29 years old and work for a major hospital in St. Louis. I just got into nursing school!!!! I start in the fall Needless to say I'm busy, but I do stop by once in awhile to say hi.
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