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by iluvmygirlz from Desoto MO

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CANCER

so we've know that my dad has cancer for awhile but I think it is all just catching up to me.

A couple of years ago my dad was diagnosed with Renal Cancer and they had to take out one of his kidneys, no big deal right 'cause the kidney is gone so the cancer left with it.

WRONG

So then we found out that the renal cell cancer spread to lungs..and of course not just a little spot that can be removed, its everywhere.  Long story short he did try some treatments and they did work for awhile.  But now they aren't and the doctors said that there is really nothing left to do but wait.  He has already beaten the odds.  The normal life expectantcy is 6-8 months for this type of renal cell cancer and he's already had it for over 2 years.

He was in the hospital over the long weekend and came home on oxygen, I guess that's when it finally hit me.  I work in a hospital and see death and dying alot but its different when its your dad.  I makes me soooo mad, I'm one of those people who want to fix everything and everyone and this time I can't.

I have a really great support system in my husband, family, friends, and co-workers.  But I still sucks!  I wanted him to see me finish college, see Veronica get to high school, and at least see Gabby start Kindergarden, but now I don't know.

Please pray for my dad and our family........thanks

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rosie read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:09 AM

i will say some prayers for your father, and your family, iluv...........

devas_yb_ecarg read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:12 AM

My prayers go out to your father, you and your family..God Bless

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:19 AM

thanks rosie and devas

luvthykids read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:38 AM

Sorry to hear it, you'll be in my thoughts and prayers I lost my dad last year to pnuemonia (spelling) so I know how hard it is just try to stay strong.

Wildflower read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 9:05 AM

I just said a prayer for your dad, you, and your family, iluvmygirlz.

harp read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 9:09 AM

My grandfather died from Cancer he was a great man loved very much. Remember there is always hope and angles watching over each and every one of us...

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harp read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 9:09 AM

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superjaybrd read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 9:19 AM

We will keep you and your family in our prayers. I know it's hard, hang in there.

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 9:57 AM

thank you everyone you guys are great!

mr_wildflower read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 2:03 PM

Losing a loved one is the harshest reality of life.... I lost my oldest sister to cancer years ago.... She was the mother hen to all of us siblings...nine of us altogether.... She was given 6 months and beat them out of 3 years.... I am saddened for you and will keep you in my prayers....

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 2:21 PM

thank you mr wildflower,, every prayer is needed and i'm sorry about your sister

jeanette read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 3:29 PM

My dad also had renal cancer few years later lung cancer middle lobe.He refused treatment lasted two years.My opinion they can never guarentee they got it all 1 little cell and whammy.Here is a little saying I read all the time.I am a breast cancer survivor of 5 years.

What Cancer Can't Do

Cancer is so limited....
It cannot cripple love,
It cannot shatter hope,
It cannot corrode faith,
It cannot eat away peace,
It cannot kill friendship,
It cannot silence courage,
It cannot invade the soul,
It cannot destroy confidence,
It cannot shut out memories,
It cannot quench the spirit,
It cannot lessen the power of the resurrection.

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 3:42 PM

congrats on the 5 years cancer free..thanks for the saying it means alot to me. I will keep everyone updated on my dad

Cuteypops read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 3:50 PM

Cancer is such an ugly desease. My mother died of cancer when I was 16. It was very hard not having her. Anytime they open you up to operate on cancer, and the air hits it, it will spread. I know sometime in my life I will have cancer, as it is the only thing that has taken my relatives. I just have to say to you. Remeber your father as the man he was before he got this desease. Remember the good times and he will always be with you. Also express your love and feelings to him now as you may never have the chance again. You have my prayers.

Johnpertzborn read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 7:25 PM

I'll never forget when I heard Richard Nixon comment in a speech that he expected a cure for cancer in ten years the way research was progressing.

That was in 1972.

Johnpertzborn read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 7:28 PM

I googled my memory and wasn't far off. It was the end of 1971. Here it is:

National Cancer Act of 1971
In 1970, the American people made clear their desire for a cure for the second-leading cause of death in the United States. President Nixon responded during his January 1971 State of the Union address: "I will also ask for an appropriation of an extra $100 million to launch an intensive campaign to find a cure for cancer, and I will ask later for whatever additional funds can effectively be used. The time has come in America when the same kind of concentrated effort that split the atom and took man to the moon should be turned toward conquering this dread disease. Let us make a total national commitment to achieve this goal."

As part of this national effort, in October 1971, the Army's Fort Detrick, Maryland, biological warfare facility was converted to a cancer research center, eventually becoming the Frederick Cancer Research and Development Center, an internationally recognized center for cancer and AIDS research.

On December 23, 1971, President Nixon followed through on his promise as he signed the National Cancer Act into law, declaring, "I hope in the years ahead we will look back on this action today as the most significant action taken during my Administration."1

The National Cancer Act (P.L. 92–218), "The War on Cancer," gave the NCI unique autonomy at NIH with special budgetary authority. The Cancer Chemotherapy National Service Center (CCNSC) increased its efforts to acquire new compounds for testing with the awarding of an acquisition and in

michelle4wellness read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 7:43 PM

iluvmygirlz...I have a growing prayer list of things that I've heard from all my new friends on these blogs. I will pray for your dad every day. How is he dealing with all of this? Is he peaceful or bitter? I pray that you and your dad's time together will be filled with good things, positive conversations, and all the love in the world! Sorry things are rough for you right now....

~m

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:18 PM

Well Michelle, my dad's attitute is different day to day. Sometimes it seems like he's okay with it. Other times he gets paranoid if the thinks his heart is beating alittle faster or his O2 numbers are alittle low. The thing that bothers him the most is that he can't be as active as he wants to be. No more motorcycle for the time being, he miss out going to the lake for the long weekend since he was in the hospital. But the girls really keep him going, he still watches our oldest 2-3 times a week during the day.

iluvmygirlz read my blog view my photos
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:21 PM

Thanks cutey for the message, I'm sorry you lost your mom at such an early age. My mom lost her dad while she was young...I can't imagine. I appreciate all the nice thoughts and prayers. thanks for making a new blogger feel at home:)

sissytrucker read my blog
Jul 10, 2007 | 8:50 PM

Im very sorry to hear of your dad having the cancer. I know just what you are going through as I myself am caring for my mom who had lung & liver cancer. tomorrow ill be taking her for her 4th cemo treatment.
Its very hard to do all the things I need to do for her but I do manage to get her taken care of. And right now she is doing pretty good. She dont do a lot as she just cant. But she is able to enjoy herself most days.
I do hope that you are able to find a outlet & the people here at the blogs are a great support system

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I love my girls just about sums it up. We have 2 girls, our oldest is 7 and the baby is 17 months old. I'm 29 years old and work for a major hospital in St. Louis. I just got into nursing school!!!! I start in the fall Needless to say I'm busy, but I do stop by once in awhile to say hi.

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