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Young Love

Apr 26, 2008 | 10:11 PM
Category: Faith

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Im 14 and in love.Any advice?

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May 23, 2008 | 10:01 PM

One month from now, when you are not "in love", find another boyfriend.

Welcome to life.

lsmlp

May 28, 2008 | 10:39 AM

Oh....how I remember. I "fell in love" when I was 14 also. Now that I am in my 30s I realize that was not love at all. It was a combination of many emotions, mostly powered by hormones.

It does not mean you are dumb, "just a kid", or naive. But you have to realize that there is a reason they say older people are WISER. We've been there...done that.

Many pregnancies, STDs, and divorces are due to these "in love" teenagers.

Come back to this blog in a few years and you'll see exactly what I mean.

Markesa

May 28, 2008 | 11:15 PM

Is there even a liitle posibility that we could be together for the rest of our lives?

rightwinger

May 31, 2008 | 10:45 AM

Any thing is possible,

How old is he?
Does he love the Lord? Go to church? faithful to church. Is he faithful to you? Never cheated, Is he responsible? Does he have any goals, ambitions, drive? Education, job, can he hold a job? How does he treat his mother- Thats how he will treat you. Does he respect his parents, authorithy, boss...? If he can pass all this, I'd keep him. If not, keep lookin.

Markesa

May 31, 2008 | 1:44 PM

He is 15 and he treats her like she is the best thing there is.(Next 2 GOD)We have been 2gether for four weeks and four days,and he hasnt cheated.He told me that he would break up with me B4 he would cheat oon me. Love, Markesa

rightwinger

May 31, 2008 | 11:45 PM

Give him a year, them give him the same test. Then you'll know.

lsmlp

Jun 1, 2008 | 8:40 AM

The main thing is...don't rush into ANYTHING!!! True love waits. That may sound corny, but it is true.

Yes, it is possible you two could be together forever. But it will take work and lots of patience. Start by getting to know each other as people first. (And I don't mean for a few days or weeks...stay at this level for months, at least!)Become friends, best friends...learn about him and let him learn about you. If he begins to pressure you into physical stuff....tell him NO. If he really cares about you at all...he will be ok with that. If he gets upset...it's because he doesn't care about you as much as he does the physical part.

There is a GOOD chance he isn't the right one for you. It may be hard to believe right now, because of how strong your feelings are, but chances are, there will be someone else that means more to you than this guy ever did.

Markesa

Jun 2, 2008 | 10:52 PM

He broke up with me this morning,because he felt that I didnt care about our relationship.This afternoon he called me to talk about it.Now,were going out again!He said that couples that break up like 2-3 times a week are healthier than other couples.Do you agree with him?Why? Love,Markesa

rightwinger

Jun 3, 2008 | 7:04 PM

Nope. Get rid of him, move on. All he's going to do is string you on forever. Drop him now before you get more attached.

rightwinger

Jun 3, 2008 | 7:06 PM

My wife have never broken up, we have been together since december '95. Youll know when it's the right person.

keep lookin'

rightwinger

Jun 3, 2008 | 7:07 PM

oops- "My wife and I have never ..."

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Markesa

I want 2 b a proffessional singer/dancer by the age of 18!I have always dreamed of performing on a stage and making people smile.My goals in life are:having my own concert at the Scottrade Center,singing the national anthem at a Rams football game,giving money that i've earned to the less fortunate,and more.My favorite singers are Nelly,Jibbs,Chingy,Beyonc
e,Ciara,Chris Brown,Bow Wow,T=pain,Ludy,and more.

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