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by LightningStorm022 from Ormond Beach, FL

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I need advice, like right now.....
Feb 13, 2008 | 5:27 PM
Category: Entertainment
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Today 4 girls asked me out and tomorrow's V'day...  Honestly, I am not interested in any of them, and I don't want to hurt their feelings on tomorrow of all days.  I want to skip school, but my dad won't let me.  I am only interested in the girl I have talked about before, and today she said to me she wants to go out, but her dad says she can't until she is 18.  I am willing to wait until then, but I don't know how I can tell the other girls I am not interested, without hurting their feelings...... Ladies out there, Please help me out here.....  
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harp read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 7:04 PM

Just tell them I think you are realy nice and sweet,but I just want to be friends...I realy like you but as a friend..
I seen it in a movie...
LightningStorm022 read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 7:09 PM

thanks harp, i was thinking about doing something like that, but i really wasnt sure if it was the best of ideas.
Cuteypops read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 8:09 PM

Never close the door on a situation. Let then know that you are seeing someone else right now, but you think they are really sweet to think of you.
wackymom read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 9:41 PM

Harp and Cutey both gave you good advice. I would like to add to that by saying that it is commendable that you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

However, it is very important to be true to yourself. You are young, don't get into the habit of doing something you really don't want to do just to spare someones feelings.

Those girls may not be happy, but they will get over it. Trust me, they wont die just because you don't want to go out with them! I have teenage girls, I WAS a teenage girl...I know this!
Speedy62269 read my blog
Feb 13, 2008 | 10:37 PM

Ok...here's an experienced males perspective.

Let's leave the 4 gals out right now. I want you to focus on the near 18 year old. That being said, please tell me you are not 32! I hate to break it to ya brother but if she's near 18 and you are 18 or under then her Dad doesn't like you. She's old enough to go out. You mentioned that your Dad won't let you skip school - NEVER let your parents know - just do it!

If this near 18 year old really likes you and you are 18 or under then figure out the "salespitch" you need to get her parents approval. Do you work ... get good grades ... stay out of trouble ... these things create brownie points.

Ok, back to the 4 gals that asked you out. Have you heard of shiftwork? Since you are in Florida, here are some options (most low cost)...

Girl 1: (THU) after school go to ice cream shop
Girl 2: (THU) rush hour movie
Girl 3: (FRI) late walk in zoo or beach
Girl 4: (SAT) noon picnic

This will give you experience and also give you a better read on which of the 4 your like better.
rosie read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 11:26 PM

i used to say i was dating someone from the next town over...
mr_wildflower read my blog view my photos
Feb 13, 2008 | 11:44 PM

Bragger
LightningStorm022 read my blog view my photos
Feb 14, 2008 | 5:37 AM

Thanks for the advice everyone. I hope everything goes okay, and I do have an ace up my sleeve for that girl. Guess it's time to show my hand. Anyway thanks again and Happy V'day everyone.
Cuteypops read my blog view my photos
Feb 14, 2008 | 9:24 AM

Speedy you are just plain bad. Don't teach the guy to cheat. lol
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